Welly Church Kids Lessons

Teens · 13-17 · Lesson 12

The Cost and Shape of Discipleship

Mark 8:27-38; 10:35-45

Following Jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.

Teach the lesson

Goal: Analyse the relevant text and explain the case that following jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.

Pick how long you want to teach. The plan updates to fit.

Short · 25 minutes
  1. 3 min
    Connect

    Locate the lesson within Cycle 2 and activate prior knowledge.

  2. 8 min
    Read

    Read selected portions of Mark 8:27-38 and identify direct observations.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  3. 5 min
    Understand

    Connect observations to the big idea without adding unsupported details.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating? · What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  4. 6 min
    Do

    Complete the primary evidence-based activity.

    Activity: The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit

    Printable: T2-L02-P01-adam-christ-argument-map

  5. 3 min
    Respond

    Name one faithful response and pray.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

Standard · 35 minutes

  1. 4 min
    Connect

    Locate the lesson within Cycle 2 and activate prior knowledge.

  2. 4 min
    Context

    Identify genre, audience, setting, and immediate context before making claims.

  3. 9 min
    Read and observe

    Read selected portions of Mark 8:27-38 and identify direct observations.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  4. 7 min
    Discuss

    Test the big idea against the evidence and identify interpretive limits.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating? · What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  5. 7 min
    Activity

    Complete the primary evidence-based activity.

    Activity: The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit

    Printable: T2-L02-P01-adam-christ-argument-map

  6. 4 min
    Respond

    Name one faithful response and pray.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

Extended · 45 minutes
  1. 3 min
    Connect

    Locate the lesson within Cycle 2 and activate prior knowledge.

  2. 6 min
    Context

    Identify genre, audience, setting, and immediate context before making claims.

  3. 10 min
    Read closely

    Read selected portions of Mark 8:27-38 and identify direct observations.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  4. 8 min
    Discuss

    Test the big idea against the evidence and identify interpretive limits.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating? · What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  5. 9 min
    Activity

    Complete the primary evidence-based activity.

    Activity: The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit

    Printable: T2-L02-P01-adam-christ-argument-map

  6. 5 min
    Extension

    Compare another passage or claim classification and state what additional evidence contributes.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating? · What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

  7. 4 min
    Respond

    Name one faithful response and pray.

    Ask: What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?

Close the class

Memory verse: Genesis 3:1-24

Prayer: Thank God for what this passage reveals and ask for wisdom to respond faithfully.

Take-home line: Following Jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.

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Analyse the relevant text and explain the case that following jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.

Read
Mark 8:27-38; 10:35-45
Opening
Ask: What does this passage actually say before we explain what it means?
Say
  • Jesus connects discipleship to self-denial, taking up the cross, and refusing to treat self-preservation as the highest good.
  • Jesus contrasts status-seeking with servant leadership and identifies His own mission with serving and giving His life.
  • Taken together, these passages support the lesson’s big idea: Following Jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.
Ask
  • What does the text directly say?
  • What conclusion requires synthesis or inference?
  • What should we avoid overstating?
  • What is one faithful response?
Do
Complete The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit.
Close
Restate the big idea, name one faithful response, and pray.
Materials
  • Bible
  • The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit

Discussion questions

  • What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?
    Simple answer: Name one concrete detail from the passage.
    Going deeper: Which observations carry the most interpretive weight?
  • What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?
    Simple answer: Which evidence best supports the big idea?
    Going deeper: What reasoning connects the evidence to the conclusion?
  • What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?
    Simple answer: Name one statement that goes beyond direct quotation.
    Going deeper: Explain the interpretive hinge and what would be an overstatement.
  • What does the passage directly say, what conclusion follows, and what should we avoid overstating?
    Simple answer: Choose one concrete response.
    Going deeper: Explain why the response follows from the evidence.

Activities

The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit · 10 min

Materials: Adam / Christ Argument Map; Bible; Pens or pencils

  1. Read Mark 8:27-38 and record two direct observations.
  2. Connect the observations to this big idea: Following Jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.
  3. Name one faithful response without claiming more than the passage supports.

Low-resource option: Draw the categories on blank paper or complete verbally.

The Cost and Shape of Discipleship Claim Audit · 8 min

Materials: Bible

  1. Read Mark 8:27-38 and record two direct observations.
  2. Connect the observations to this big idea: Following Jesus means self-denial, service, and allegiance shaped by the cross rather than status.
  3. Name one faithful response without claiming more than the passage supports.

Low-resource option: Use verbal responses.

Printables

Prepare before class (optional, about 30 minutes)

Passage context

Jesus' ministry: Discipleship within the Jesus, Gospel, and Salvation cycle

  • Jesus connects discipleship to self-denial, taking up the cross, and refusing to treat self-preservation as the highest good.
  • Jesus contrasts status-seeking with servant leadership and identifies His own mission with serving and giving His life.
  • Start with the selected passage before moving to synthesis or application.
  • Read this as Gospel narrative / teaching and account for its immediate literary setting.
  • Distinguish direct text, canonical synthesis, inference, and application.

Keep it faithful

  • Self-denial is allegiance to Christ, not erasure of personhood, acceptance of abuse, or glorification of needless harm.
  • Questions and disagreement may be expressed without embarrassment or coercion.

Questions children may ask

How sure are we about this conclusion?
What if Christians disagree?

Every child can join in

  • Offer verbal or written responses.
  • Preview activity sequence.
  • Allow students to pass on personal-sharing questions.
  • No sensory simulation is required.
  • Read aloud and use icons, sequence cards, oral choices, or a scribe.
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